Studies have shown that the majority of pregnancies are unplanned. That's not to say that once we get over our initial surprise/shock/joy or despair that we don't rally and pull ourselves together to deal with the impending event. In 25 yeas of practice I have NEVER met a woman who didn't want a healthy baby. No matter how hard life might be, we women will find a way to make it through. In the meantime though it may be less stressful to be in charge of your fertility. Learn about your options and make the healthiest choice for your body.